BULLIES2BUDDIES: www.Bulllies2Buddies.com
This is a pro-active, common sense approach to stop bullying based on the Golden Rule. The program turns victims of bullying into confident and strong students in charge of their own lives. The Bullies2Buddies program works because it is based on universal wisdom and well–established principles that are taught by every major school of psychology. Tons of FREE resources for Administrators, Teachers, Parents, and Students.  It works!

BROOKS GIBBS: www.brooksgibbs.com
Brooks Gibbs is an award winning social skills educator. He teaches strategies for conflict resolution with a special emphasis on emotional resilience and the Golden Rule. You can also check out a tutorial on How to Stop a Bully by watching Brooks Gibbs’ video at: www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oKjW1OIjuw

TEEN TRUTH: www.teentruthlive.com
Teen Truth is committed to empowering youth to be the difference in their worlds by giving them a VOICE and challenging them to think differently. Teen Truth is making a difference! It is transforming lives and helping youth to believe in themselves no matter what!

PROJECT REASONS: www.projectreasons.org
In high school Macy Rae Kline after years of cutting and suicidal thoughts started Project Reasons. She uses her own experience to help peers struggling with suicidal thoughts by meeting them where they are: online. You can also follow her on Facebook: www.facebook.com/ProjectReasonsInc and her blog on www.projectreasons.org/blog.

TEENZTALK: www.teenztalk.org
Teenztalk was created by a teen. It connects teens to teens all over the world that discuss joy in pursuing their passions, find opportunity in challenges, and come up with strategies for stress relief. CONNECT. SHARE.  INSPIRE.

GIRL TALK: http://www.mygirltalk.org/ 
Girl Talk is a national nonprofit organization that establishes positive weekly peer-to-peer mentoring programs for middle school girls, which are led by high school girls. Its mentoring program offers fun, positive weekly meetings, community service projects and friendship building activities for middle school girls. Girl Talk Chapters help young teenage girls build self-esteem, develop leadership skills and recognize the value of community service. Girl Talk is free to any high school girl who wants to make a difference in her community. Visit the Girl Talk Web site for more information.

AEVIDUM: www.aevidum.com
Programs for school clubs, and for schools as a whole. This promotes having each other’s back, and helps promote the warning signs of depression in hopes to prevent suicide.                                                                                         

What Makes Us Unique? We focus on family members and friends of those who are depressed, and caregivers that usually operate with little or no guidance or support. We concentrate on depression and bipolar disorder, the most prevalent mental illnesses, and leading causes of suicide.

The Cyberbullying Research Center provides up to date information about the nature, extent, causes and consequences of cyber bullying among adolescents.

SAFE SURFING: http://safesurfingkids.com
Dedicated to helping families surf the internet with awareness, safety and knowledge. 

BARK: www.bark.us
An app that can be downloaded to iOS or Android phones for parents to monitor, detect and be alerted when there is potential for cyberbullying, sexting, depression, drug-related content and suicidal ideation. The app works with over 20 social media platforms, iOS and Android texting and email accounts to securely analyze your child’s online activity 24/7. Once the algorithm red flags a concerning phrase or word the parent is emailed and texted. The app also provides parents with recommended actions on how to handle the situation.

MY3: http://my3app.org
An app that allows you to define your network and have a plan to stay safe when you have having thoughts of suicide. It also provides links to resources, a link to the National Suicide Prevention LifeLine number and 911 in the event of an emergency. This allows people to plan ahead for the times when they are feeling hopeless and can reach out to their network in the time of need.

ReThink: http://www.rethinkwords.com
A PROACTIVE app that recognizes hurtful words and encourages the person posting to rethink their post before the damaging words are done.

NETSANITY: https://netsanity.net  
Netsanity restores peace of mind and family time by giving parents complete control over the access their kids have to their iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch, and Android Samsung Galaxy devices — from anywhere, anytime. They also have a guide to decoding teen slang terms at: https://netsanity.net/teen-slang-parents-guide/ 

WEBSAFETY: www.websafety.com
WebSafety provides an open window through which concerned parents can monitor questionable and potentially harmful content or a direct predatory exchange occurring on their child’s mobile device or computer.

NET NANNY: www.netnanny.com
A website that protects your family from pornography, online predators, cyberbullies and more.

NETSMARTZ: www.netsmartz.org
This resource is designed to introduce younger children to basic internet safety concepts through interactions with animated characters—Clicky, a yellow robot, and the sister-and-brother team, Nettie and Webster. Children learn the importance of being safer on—and offline from the repetition of safety messaging in Clicky’s songs. The ultimate goal of NetSmartzKids is to teach children to identify online dangers and practice safer behaviors.

The following apps can be downloaded directly to your mobile device from your iOS or Android app store.

SafeToNet: This is a free app that allows you to connect to your children’s devices and remotely block apps, set a timer on an app or lock your child’s phone (except in an emergency).

 #BeStrong: This is an anti-bullying emoji keyboard that people can use to put positive images when they witness someone being cyberbullied.

Know Bullying by SAMHSA: Studies show that if parents talk to their child at least 15 minutes a day can build a foundation for a strong relationship, develop their resilience to peer pressure and prevent bullying this app allows parents to set reminders to talk with their children and provides them with questions to discuss with their child.

“GROWING UP SOCIAL: Raising Relational Kids in a Screen Driven World” by Gary Chapman and Arlene Pellicane
Did you know that the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that parents avoid television viewing and screen time for children under 2 years of age? That’s right – no screen time! Young children grow by discovering the real world – things they can touch, taste, see, hear, and smell. They are developing motor skills, such as crawling, pulling themselves up and walking. Sitting in front of a screen is detrimental to the mental, physical, and social development of young children. Talking and playing with your young child is much more productive.

“No More Perfect Kids” by Jill Savage and Kathy Koch, PhD
This book equips ALL of us with the tools and perspective to: identify and remove the PERFECTION INFECTION from parenting. Really know each child so we can fully embrace their unique design. Release our children from unrealistic expectations and answer the questions are kids are silently asking in a way that gives them the courage and freedom to be themselves.

“Teachable Moments” by Mary Beth Hicks
Never have parents been so challenged by the world around them to instill in their children the virtues that lead to a strong moral compass, admirable character, and a mature faith. Gives parents tips on how to use social media ethically, with compassion, and good character.





IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: Contact Lubbock, Inc. is providing educational information to help prevent suicide. There is no single way to combat the problem of suicide. Understanding this variability in youth suicide, we must stress that there are no implied or otherwise suggested statements that this information can guarantee it will prevent suicide or suicide attempts from occurring. PROFESSIONAL HELP should be sought WHENEVER there is a possibility of suicidal ideation. NEVER try to solve the problem without obtaining PROFESSIONAL HELP.

How to discuss the difficult topic of suicide with your children:

BE AVAILABLE: Let your child know that he/she can talk to you anytime. SHOW that you want to hear what he/she has to say. Make sure nothing is off the table when it comes to discussion.

DISCUSS SUICIDE OPENLY: Be direct when asking about his/her suicidal intent. You must be willing to ask the questions….
Are you thinking about suicide?  Do you have a plan? Asking openly lets him/her know you are not frightened of the topic. Then you must….

LISTEN: Do not judge. Listen carefully for a plan and try to determine how clear it is. Express your concern; be supportive and encourage him/her to talk about their pain, fears, loneliness, anger, etc. Do not try and fix it. Do not argue that suicide is wrong or talk about how it will hurt others; don’t use shame or guilt. This will shut down the trust building process. Just listen, and then talk about a solution.

NEVER LEAVE A SUICIDAL PERSON ALONE: Stay with him/her or have someone who is aware of the suicidal intent to stay with him/her.

LIMIT ACCESS TO LETHAL MEANS: If there are guns in the house, remove them from the premises immediately (it is not enough to lock them up). Also if he/she has access to grandparents, aunts, uncles or friends homes that have guns, make sure they are aware of the threat and their guns are also removed. Keep track of medications in the house; this would also include relatives and friends homes. Limit access to alcohol and drugs.

KNOW WHAT YOUR TEEN IS DOING: It’s not about keeping tabs on your kids day or night. It’s about knowing the type of friends he/she is hanging out with. What do they talk about? If they change classes or quit sports find out WHY? Talk to teachers and counselors to find out if he/she are isolating themselves or spending more time with kids you might not know.

IT WILL GET BETTER: Let him/her know that suicide is a permanent choice to a temporary situation.
SEEK HELP: If outside help is needed make him/her feel OK about it. Also know that it takes sometimes three or four counselors before you find the one that he/she trusts and will open up to. This is normal even for adults.

MEDICATION: There is a black-box warning for medication prescribed for teens and young adults. READ the information.  KNOW that medication is not the fix.  Counseling should always be a part of the process.  Your son or daughter need to find ways to cope, to learn how to deal with issues in a positive manner.  Talking about it is critical.

CONSIDER FAMILY COUNSELING: In truth; Many times parents think if we could just fix “John or Mary” then everything would be fine. That is rarely the case.  It is proven that family counseling is much more effective as a family unit. It means that sometimes you will be in counseling as a family and other times each of you will talk to a counselor in private.  Don’t be afraid to seek help. Your insurance may provide benefits for mental health, or your company may provide an Employee Assistance Program.

Sleep and the Youth Brain: Parents should monitor sleep habits of your youth. New studies show that the youth brain needs eight to ten hours sleep each night. Uninterrupted sleep is a must. Electronics should be shut off by 9:00 pm and kids should not be allowed to use computers, phones, or other electronic media, after the suggested cut off time.  Parents should set the example and do the same with stopping electronics. Parents must be parents; set the rules and make sure there is accountability for disobeying the rules.



One effective tool to let he/she know that you are willing to listen without judging.  We suggest that you give him/her a keepsake. It does not have to be anything expensive, something that will remind them that they can talk to you. Take the time to write a hand written note, one from each parent with the following message:

I want you to know I will always be here for you. I love you and there is no problem that we can’t get through together. If you ever need to talk, but don’t know where to start, just give me this note. I agree to listen to you without judging. Regardless of what you say, I will do my best to remain calm. Remember, we will get through this together. There is nothing that could make me love you less. Remember, that I am also human. I may not always do or say the right thing or make the right decision, but I will always love you. (A portion of this message was taken in part from Project Hug).

 You must mean what you say in the message!

Sharing time each day with your child is one of the greatest gifts you can give. One on one time with each child every day will mean everything in a crisis situation.

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Contact Lubbock, Inc. is providing educational information to help prevent suicide. There is no single way to combat the problem of suicide. Understanding this variability in youth suicide, we must stress that there are no implied or otherwise suggested statements that this information can guarantee it will prevent suicide or suicide attempts from occurring. PROFESSIONAL HELP should be sought WHENEVER there is a possibility of suicidal ideation. NEVER try to solve the problem without obtaining PROFESSIONAL HELP.


Health begins and ends with the GI tract. No matter what the age. The GI tract is our first and most important protector. If your gut is inflamed, then you are not healthy. As a result you will be lacking energy, as well as be more susceptible to disease, including autoimmune diseases that will now have the opportunity to flourish. This toxic GI distress will affect every part of your body, including your bones, joints, organs, glands, skin, hormones and most important YOUR BRAIN!

A poor diet of high-carb, sugar-laden, processed foods, as well as overuse of pharmaceutical drugs (especially antibiotics) as well as our toxic environment such as chemicals in our homes that we clean with, fluoride, and chlorine all contribute to digestive tract damage. All these toxins “eat” away at the mucus lining. When this happens, your health degrades. We must have balance in the GI Tract for good health.

What can we do to protect the digestive tract and the brain?



WHY IS THE GI TRACT SO INFLUENTIAL IN THE BRAIN? The GI Tract speaks to the brain at all times; when the tract is off and not working it can explain a lot of the forgetfulness, depression and hormonal deficiencies that plague so many.

What do hormones have to do with the GI Tract? It’s all about the gut/brain connection. Some of the important “feel good” hormones such as serotonin are made in the intestinal tract. The rest are made in the brain. Serotonin “speaks” to the epicenter of the hormone system, the hypothalamus, which resides in the brain. If the GI Tract is distressed and not working properly, then serotonin does not get delivered to the brain, so the Hypothalamus/pituitary axis does not get the proper signals to activate the hormonal system through its conductor, the thyroid. If the thyroid is not activated properly, the rest of the hormones in the body don’t know what to do. Now you’ve got chaos, mood swings, fatigue, no libido, depression, and a body out of control, all because your stomach is in distress.


Probiotic strains with at least 10 billion (the more the better) colony-forming units once daily. It is also highly recommended that you rotate your brand every thirty to sixty days. By regularly introducing new strains, you will create a more diverse micro biome. A study in the journal of Psychopharmacology found that adding Prebiotic foods like leeks, bananas, apples, asparagus, onions, honey, and whole grains to your diet can drop levels of stress hormones. The study shows that those eating these foods for breakfast had a 24% drop in levels of the stress hormone cortisol after just one hour. Probiotics and Prebiotics are two of the simplest steps we can all take to relieving stress and creating a healthy gut/brain path.


S-Adenosylmethionine (SAMe) is a naturally occurring compound that is found in almost every tissue and fluid in the body. It is involved in many important processes. SAMe plays a role in the immune system, maintains cell membranes, and helps produce and break down brain chemicals, such as serotonin, melatonin, and dopamine. It works with Vitamin B6, B12 and folate (vitamin B9). Being deficient in either vitamin B12 or folate may reduce levels of SAMe in your body. Numerous scientific studies have shown that SAMe helps relieve the pain of osteoarthritis, and other studies suggest that SAMe may help treat depression. Some research suggests that SAMe is more effective than placebo in treating mild-to-moderate depression and is just as effective as antidepressant medications without the side effects.

In addition, antidepressants tend to take 6-8 weeks to work, while SAMe seems to begin more quickly. In 2002 an agency of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services conducted a meticulous evaluation of SAMe. Its findings show the effectiveness of SAMe in helping to maintain stable mood and joint function without any side effects. In addition SAMe has multiple mechanisms of action that are used throughout the body, especially in the liver, which help maintain liver health. Newer studies confirm the Department of Health and Human Services study.


• Omega 3’s have once again been found to be beneficial in reducing depression.

• A new study also shows that youth ages 8-16 had less behavioral problems while taking Omega 3’s. The kids taking Omega 3’s also showed improved memory and their test scores were higher.

• Omega 3’s protect against depression, and other mood disorders.


Several studies on Vitamin D3 indicate the potential for preventing and treating mental disorders such as depression, seasonal affective disorder (SAD), anxiety, and schizophrenia. 
Vitamin D3 provides an enzyme essential for creating neurotransmitters, such as dopamine, adrenaline, and noradrenalin. These neurotransmitter imbalances are associated with bipolar disorders, schizophrenia, and depression. Vitamin D is actually a prohormone, which acts as a support to existing hormones, Or as a precursor for more hormonal production.









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